Major Softie wrote:
You think all women are like the women
you choose to have a relationship with?
This is getting kind of personal for a public motorcycling forum, but my life is pretty well an open book and I don't care about what people think about me. Who are they to judge? I know who my true friends are.
I stopped having 'relations' with women that I don't like (or that don't like me) when I was about 25.
I'm not rich and I'm not as young as I used to be, therefore I can no longer afford to 'choose'.
When a beautiful woman chooses me I go with the flow until it becomes more of a chore than a pleasure to be with them.
Whenever and wherever I see a
strikingly attractive (a 10 to my eyes) woman, I 'm not at all shy, I jump right in and make the first move even if I figure I don't have a chance. Sometimes the attraction is mutual and I get lucky;
99% of them shoot me down (I am actually starting to enjoy rejection).
I just go with the 1% that like me. I monogamously treat them like a princess and give them all the rope they need to hang themselves (figuratively speaking). They always do eventually. ( I have a
'one strike, you're out' rule and stick to it).
The WORST case scenario I can envision is being trapped in a passionless relationship with a matronly old woman.
I don't need or want somebody to get old and die with. I prefer someone to feel young and alive and enjoy
today with.
I feel sorry for the (all too common) average guy who is trapped in a passionless and loveless life of convenience with someone they settled for because they didn't want to end up alone or figured she's the best they can do.
You guys know who you are.
When's the last time you kissed and made love to your woman with the same intensity as when you were on your honeymoon?
When's the last time you spent every moment apart anticipating that kiss?